Deflated discouragement

Discouraged

Strength 2 of 4

Running short of the will to keep going when effort hasn’t paid off, with a creeping doubt that trying again will make any difference.

In the body

  • Energy draining from the arms and legs
  • Head dipping a little
  • A heavy sigh

Needs behind it

When these needs aren’t met

Softer and stronger

  1. Discouraged
  2. Dejected
  3. Demoralised
  4. Disheartened
  5. Defeated

Often confused with

Demoralised

Discouraged is losing heart after a setback; demoralised is when repeated knocks have worn down your confidence and sense of purpose.

Disappointed

Disappointed is the drop when a hoped-for outcome doesn’t arrive; discouraged comes when effort keeps failing to pay off and the will to try again fades.

Frustrated

Frustrated still has energy pushing against the block; discouraged is when that energy has started to drain away.

Faux feelings that can hide this