Fear worry

Nervous

Strength 2 of 4

Keyed up as a moment you have to face draws near, with jittery energy running through you and a fear of not getting it right.

In the body

  • Butterflies in the stomach
  • Fidgeting hands
  • Sweaty palms
  • A dry mouth

Needs behind it

When these needs aren’t met

Softer and stronger

  1. Concerned
  2. Uneasy
  3. Apprehensive
  4. Nervous
  5. Worried
  6. Anxious
  7. Dread
  8. Panicked

Often confused with

Apprehensive

Apprehensive looks ahead to an event with doubt about how it will go; nervous is the jittery, keyed-up energy as the moment draws near.

Excited

Nervous and excited share the fluttering stomach and quick heartbeat; nervous braces for something going wrong, excited leans towards something you want.

Shaky

Nervous is keyed-up energy before something happens; shaky is the unsteadiness that lingers after a shock or a loss of footing.

Shy

Shy is a hanging back from contact with people; nervous is unease about how something ahead will go, people or not.