Thrown indecision

Torn

Strength 3 of 4

Caught painfully between two things that both matter deeply, where choosing one means losing the other and something has to give whichever way you go.

In the body

  • A pulling ache across the chest
  • A heavy, knotted stomach
  • Pacing or turning back and forth

Needs behind it

When these needs aren’t met

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Softer and stronger

  1. Hesitant
  2. Uncertain
  3. Ambivalent
  4. Doubtful
  5. Sceptical
  6. Torn

Often confused with

Ambivalent

Ambivalent is having mixed feelings about one thing; torn is being pulled hard between two things that both matter, knowing one has to give.