Warm care

Sympathetic

Also known as empathetic, pity

Strength 2 of 4

Feeling for someone in their difficulty and wishing it were otherwise for them, while it stays their trouble rather than yours.

In the body

  • Brow drawing together
  • Head tilting towards them
  • A lowered, softened voice

Needs behind it

When these needs are met

Softer and stronger

  1. Caring
  2. Sympathetic
  3. Compassionate
  4. Protective
  5. Tender

Often confused with

Compassionate

Sympathetic is feeling sorry for someone’s trouble from a little distance; compassionate stays close to the suffering with a steady wish to ease it.

Sorry

Sorry is regret for your own part in something; sympathetic is feeling for someone else’s trouble that you did not cause.