Sorrow grief

Devastated

Also known as inconsolable

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Laid waste by a loss or shock so large that life as you knew it seems wrecked, leaving you stunned, emptied and beyond comfort.

In the body

  • Legs giving way
  • A numb, stunned stillness
  • Shaking or uncontrollable sobbing
  • Breath knocked out of you

Needs behind it

When these needs aren’t met

Softer and stronger

  1. Grieving
  2. Anguished
  3. Devastated

Often confused with

Anguished

Devastated is being laid waste by a loss, often stunned and emptied; anguished is pain at its sharpest and most active, writhing rather than flattened.

Crushed

Crushed is being flattened by a blow to one hope or bond; devastated is having a whole part of life laid waste, often by a loss that cannot be undone.

See also